Introduction
What women want is a matter of seduction, physiology, personality, power, female orgasm... and we're just getting started!!!
CONNIE SUMNER: Did you just fuck me across the street?
PAUL MARTEL: [Chuckles] Mm-hmm. I did.
CONNIE SUMNER: You know, we could end this now and no one would get hurt.
PAUL MARTEL: Yeah? I think if we ended this now, I'd get hurt. [Kneels down and starts undressing Connie as she sits on the edge of his bed]
CONNIE SUMNER: So, no matter what someone gets hurt?
PAUL MARTEL: Maybe not. Maybe we'll get tired of each other.
CONNIE SUMNER: God, I hope I get tired of you. You're in my mind. You're the only thing in my mind when I wake up every morning. You're in my brain before I even open my eyes.
PAUL MARTEL: What do you think of?
CONNIE SUMNER: It depends. If it's a day when I don’t know if I’m going to get to see you, I'm anxious, thinking of excuses to come into the city and see you.
PAUL MARTEL: [Now taking off Connie's bra] And the days you know we meet?
CONNIE SUMNER: On those days, I'm… calm, and hating myself. [She snatches off her bra in a hurry] Oh God! [They begin to have sex]
—"Unfaithful" starring Diane Lane, Richard Gere, Olivier Martinez (2002)
Asking the Right Questions
What does every woman want? In other words, what must we do to control a woman's behavior? This proverbial question is at the core of manhood, and to answer it is to answer all related things. That includes how to seduce and get women; how to make them climax and ejaculate (how to be good in bed); how to regard marriage; how to negotiate with women in business, social situations and in politics; how to get rid of women at no cost to your family, your health or your finances; even how to deliberately conceive a son or a daughter.
But some clarity is needed at the outset. Though many of the facts and truths I reveal can be applied either physiologically or biologically to all women, the temptation to apply this knowledge to any woman other than a Western or Westernized one should be resisted. This is not a lesson in stereotyping, women-bashing, female degradation or malicious male dominance. And though there has always been some degree of friction between the sexes due to our inherent physiological and biological differences, aside from those two aspects, this course is not broad enough to include all cultures.
My Research
For the first part of the last 30 years I have casually embarked upon a research project that eventually became a formal study when my lawyer and good friend suggested that I lecture and give seminars teaching men the secret to successful interaction with women.
I had initially only focused my studies on American women, however, like Europe, Australia, Canada and the Americas, the U.S.A. is a child of Western culture. The ties that bind us are stronger than any differences that divide. My research had always encompassed the major Western countries, and the underlying similarities had always been obvious to me. So, just by learning the basics of the language, traveling to the place and checking my ego at the border, I could bypass most cultural differences.
For instance, regardless of which Western country I sampled, monogamy was always the norm. Paternalism was always the dominant cultural mode. Additionally, the influence of Greek culture and Roman civilization was unmistakable. The fact that all major Western nations write their language in the Roman script (with only minor variations) cannot be undervalued. Moreover, Roman religious thinking, especially the code of ethical behavior is so deeply woven into daily life that it almost single-handedly defines the West.
As you will discover if you research these facts, with respect to our women, our countries have far more in common than any aesthetic differences might otherwise suggest. To gather data properly, it became clear early on that I would need to sample a representative portion of the entire Western adult female population. This would be women between post-puberty, which I set at 18 years of age, and post-menopause, which I set at about 55 years of age. The task seems monumental, but it was rather simple.
To make it simple, because my findings were intended to apply to all Western/Westernized women, I needed to take a scientific approach. Since what I had been and would be doing was a sort of makeshift sexual polling, I decided that the most effective approach would be the tools developed by the Gallup Organization, the originator of scientific sampling.
Among other things, in order for my poll to be accurate according to Gallup standards: (a) it must be taken from an adequate number of women, which Gallup recommends be no more than 1,000 since the accuracy does not necessarily increase with the more people sampled; and more importantly (b) the selection process must be completely random allowing every woman in the entire population an equal probability of falling into my clutches, a thing called Equal Probability of Selection. [1]
The sampling I conducted was actually more accurate and reliable than a modern Gallup poll because I used the original method of interviewing each woman one-on-one, or at least in-person when there was more than one woman involved. This is the way it was done by necessity up until the mid-1980s. What's more, all my sampling involved intimacy, and in most cases, sexual contact with all the involuntary muscle and emotional reactions that come with honest sexual pleasure. This way I could be sure of the truthfulness of the woman I was sampling, and see and feel her reactions and behavior.
My first task was to clearly identify and describe the target population: national adult women who lived by Western customs and habits. Basically, the target audience is all adult women, aged 18 and older, married or single, straight or lesbian, living within the continental United States, Canada, Central & South America, Australia and, of course, Europe. In effect, this is the civilian, non-institutionalized population of women, which excludes those living on military bases, in prisons and hospitals, and others living in isolated areas.
My second task was to design a method that would enable me to sample the target women randomly. This basically meant getting together with women from all geographical areas in these countries, indiscriminately on every point of the scale of beauty (1 to 10), from every social class, and at any time of the menstrual month.
In order to carry out the tasks at hand, I would need a key. In other words, I needed a universal tool to get past the natural resistance females put up against males: I needed a charm. Taking after my father, I always had charisma with women, even as a young lad, but seeing that I would be dealing with not just the good, but the bad and the ugly women as well, I had to do some studying.
I hit the books on female physiology, anatomy and sexuality, especially from the more accurate early Feminist perspective. I had to learn the art of seduction, how to appeal to the various female personality types in order to get them to participate and commit themselves emotionally; I learned the ancient art of female ejaculation, how to make a woman climax at will in order to get that unrehearsed, honest emotional response; and among others, the keys of power, how to be a dominant male.
The Western/Westernized Woman
No man or woman can accurately say what all women of the world want due to the fact that women are different culture to culture in key ways. Some women have a cultural reputation for being very devoted to their men but dangerously vindictive, such as Vietnamese women. Others have a reputation for being very sexual and down-to-earth but often harsh, such as women from most Arab countries. When they take on Western standards they change. Therefore, my blanket references to women throughout this course should be understood to pertain only to Western and Westernized women.
Moreover, in an effort to keep things simple and to avoid causing the brain to shift back and forth between math and words, I have refrained from using percentages wherever possible. So, where I have used phrases like "few women" I am talking about no more than 3 out of every 10 of my subjects. When I say "some women," I am talking no more than 4 out of every 10. When I say "many women," I am talking about half or no greater than 6 out of every 10. Where I say "most women," I mean at least 7 out of every 10, and where I use blanket statements referring to women in general I am saying no less than 9 out of every 10.
Applying the Answers
When it comes to these women, this course will make seducing them, sexually pleasing them and, most importantly, peacefully controlling them, easy and it renders any woman your potential target. Maybe you're a smart guy but you lack self-confidence; maybe you're tired of not getting laid very often and you want to score hot women; maybe you're already married and can no longer deny the unpleasant feelings you are secretly experiencing being around your wife. (Some of us have lost the desire to return home even to see our own children because of the fog that hangs over the household as a result of the woman’s mood.)
Perhaps you've got a product you want to successfully market to women; you might even just need to influence a certain woman to indirectly control her man, or just to accomplish a certain goal. Regardless, this course will provide you with lenses to see how her reality works. How you fit into it and how it can be shaped then come naturally to you with practice.
Her brain and vagina are the focus of our attention. These are the centers where all the controls are waiting for you to take over an otherwise unstable, emotionally impulsive person. With practice you will come to see maintaining control as surprisingly easy and effortless, even boring. It will guide you to developing that crucial skill of getting into a woman's head in an almost psychic sense, which will make her feel as though her actions are her own idea or were preordained by some higher power—like the universe or even God—never suspecting that you are actually in control.
The Purpose of this Course
With that in mind, this course is a key to unlocking your true potential. The better equipped you are with this knowledge, especially of how to negotiate with the opposite sex, the better lover, husband, father, son, happy bachelor or just all-around more confident and likeable guy you will be. It’s designed to empower you to control the situation the only way it can be controlled: through the skilled management of your nuts.
It can be used either to attack or to defend. It could be used to build or to destroy. Either way, the motto is always: "Subtle persuasion and indirect influence." This is because, as it has long been said, another man will usually try to punch you in the face, but a woman will usually try to stab you in the back. The indirect approach, as you will see in the case of Western/Westernized women, is necessary. So, what they do by nature you do ten times more effectively just by practicing what you learn in this course.
What I will be doing is, basically, treating you like my son, like the warrior prince who is now ready to assume the throne. You must know how to handle such a powerful position. Being the king of your own domain, since where a man lays his hat is his castle, is risky business. As history has shown, when a young lad is handed the throne prematurely his kingdom will wind up divided and the castle will eventually be invaded by another man, in one form or another.
So, the goal of this course is to be the dad you never had around to explain these secrets. Like myself in my early years, I wouldn’t dare discuss dealing with women like this, without all the watered-down, sugar-coated rhetoric we modern men think we must engage in to keep our women—the real thought-police—from punishing us on mere suspicion.
How to Use this Course
The written course is designed to supplement the audio portions. It is divided into two parts: Study & Practice, corresponding to audio libraries 1 & 2. To get maximum value out of this eBook you will need to use it as a reference tool when listening to the audio. You can go through the chapters in the order presented or you can skip around to whatever applies directly to your goals.
Part 1 is given to you free. It contains all the foundational information you need to understand women, but it won't tell you what to do to control them. Parts 1 and 2 compliment each other hand-in-hand and one won't work without the other. Part 1 will only prep your brain for what you'll learn how to do in part 2. Therefore, part 2 assumes you have the background knowledge covered in part 1. I recommend you keep this in mind whenever you skip around.
If you jump ahead to part 2 first, you will be like a football player on the baseball field: fast, high endurance, but not what is needed to win the game. If you rely only on part 1, you'll be like a shade-tree mechanic, able to diagnose the situation, but with no practical expertise to actually do hands-on maintenance of the vehicle.